thoughts on : give your heart a break (Demi Lovato)

salam and hai. lama aku x update blog, been busy. and stressed. hahhaa. writing is one of my therapy to feel better cus i'm horrible at expressing my genuine feelings.

sekarang aku tengah cuti sem, hehehhe. ada la dalam 3-4 minggu. serious aku x tahu nak buat apa. lol. masa exam x sabaq sangat nak balik. maybe i should enjoy my life with my beloved family. to the fullest. btw, msa kat Uni haritu, camna tah aku boleh layan lagi Demi Lovato : Give You Heart A Break. and yang paling aku ingat, ada sekali tu lepas beriadah dengan Mus, Syiera & Wahida, lagu Demi ni on. then Mus tanya kalau kitaorg faham x maksud dia. before this aku macam blur tapi lepas Mus buat aku hayati lirik ni, aku rasa macam pergh. so lepas beriadah tu memang kami bincang je la pasal lagu ni. oh, ni lirik dia..

"Give Your Heart A Break"

The day I first met you
You told me you'd never fall in love
But now that I get you
I know fear is what it really was

Now here we are,
So close yet so far.
Haven't I passed the test?
When will you realize,
Baby, I'm not like the rest?

Don't wanna break your heart
Wanna give your heart a break
I know you're scared it's wrong
Like you might make a mistake
There's just one life to live
And there's no time to wait, to wait
So let me give your heart a break, give your heart a break
Let me give your heart a break, your heart a break
There's just so much you can take
Give your heart a break
Let me give your heart a break, your heart a break
Oh yeah, yeah

On Sunday you went home alone
There were tears in your eyes
I called your cell phone, my love
But you did not reply

The world is ours. If we want it,
We can take it if you just take my hand.
There's no turning back now.
Baby, try to understand

Don't wanna break your heart
Wanna give your heart a break
I know you're scared it's wrong
Like you might make a mistake
There's just one life to live
And there's no time to wait, to wait
So let me give your heart a break, give your heart a break
Let me give your heart a break, your heart a break
There's just so much you can take
Give your heart a break
Let me give your heart a break, your heart a break
Oh yeah, yeah

When your lips are on my lips
Then our hearts beat as one
But you slip out of my fingertips
Every time you run, whoa-oh-whoa-oh-oh

Don't wanna break your heart
Wanna give your heart a break
I know you're scared it's wrong
Like you might make a mistake
There's just one life to live
And there's no time to wait, to wait
So let me give your heart a break

'Cause you've been hurt before
I can see it in your eyes
You try to smile it away, some things you can't disguise
Don't wanna break your heart
Baby, I can ease the ache, the ache
So let me give your heart a break, give your heart a break
Let me give your heart a break, your heart a break
There's just so much you can take
Give your heart a break
Let me give your heart a break, your heart a break
Oh yeah, yeah

The day I first met you
You told me you'd never fall in love

maksud:

apa yang aku leh interpret lagu ni.. macam ni

The day I first met you
You told me you'd never fall in love
But now that I get you
I know fear is what it really was

ada seorang lelaki ni, dia frust bercinta. dia kenal seorang perempuan and dia luah everything. and aku assume somehow lelaki ni dia dah tak percaya cinta, TRAUMA dan x nak bercinta based on "You told me you'd never fall in love" . kemudian, perempuan ni pulak, dia tangkap cintan dengan lelaki tu. even lelaki tu dah putus cinta dengan orang yang lelaki tu PALING SAYANG, macam first love la @ cinta sejati gitu. so usaha punya usaha, perempuan tu dapat hati lelaki tu walaupun pada mulanya lelaki tu cakap dia x kan jatuh cinta lagi. ni based on "But now that I get you" . kemudian lepas perempuan tu i relationship dengan lelaki tu, baru dia tahu kenapa lelaki tu cakap dia tak kan jatuh cinta lagi lepas break up dengan EX dia. "I know fear is what it really was". rupanya lelaki tu takut patah hati lagi. sakit kan bila kita sayang orang tapi orang tu buat bodo, x hargai perasaan & usaha kita? maybe tu la kot rasa lelaki tu. takut benda yang sama berulang. 

Now here we are,
So close yet so far.
Haven't I passed the test?
When will you realize,
Baby, I'm not like the rest?

"Now here we are" , perempuan tu rujuk pasal relationship diaorang. dulu kawan sekarang kekasih. tapi, masa tgh in relationship tu, perempuan tu tertanya kenapa lelaki tu macam krik krik je dengan dia. dekat tapi macam jauh. walhal diaorang in relationship kot. "So close yet so far" . perempuan tu rasa x best la. ye lah, common sense perempuan tu kan dah memang tangkap cintan dengan lelaki tu tapi lelaki tu x beri perasaan yang sama dekat perempuan tu. kalau xde perasaan, kenapa dari awal lelaki tu terima hati & perasaan perempuan tu. so macam, x cukup ke usaha yang perempuan tu buat untuk dia? x cukup ke perempuan tu yakinkan lelaki tu yang perempuan tu memang sayang sangat dekat lelaki tu? "Haven't I passed the test?". after all yang perempuan tu buat, dia rasa lelaki tu tak nampak usaha dia. lelaki tu x sedar yang perempuan tu, she's a keeper kot. (bukan term bola). macam, perempuan tu tertanya dia x dapat lagi ke kepercayaan lelaki tu? and perempuan tu kesal sebab, dia memang sayang lelaki tu, sayang sgt. boleh jadi lelaki tu her first love or cinta sejati perempuan tu tapi lelaki tu macam tak perasan benda tu. perempuan tu rasa lelaki yang dia suka tu anggap dia macam sama dengan perempuan lain. "Baby, I'm not like the rest?". bila la lelaki tu nk sedar perempuan tu tak macam perempuan yang lain.

Don't wanna break your heart

Wanna give your heart a breakI know you're scared it's wrong
Like you might make a mistake
There's just one life to live
And there's no time to wait, to wait
So let me give your heart a break, give your heart a break
Let me give your heart a break, your heart a break
There's just so much you can take
Give your heart a break
Let me give your heart a break, your heart a break
Oh yeah, yeah

perempuan tu x nak patah kan hati lelaki tu "Don't wanna break your heart", perempuan tu nk redakan sakit hati lelaki tu, "Wanna give your heart a break". cukup-cukup la lelaki tu rasa sakit sebab EX lelaki tu. makan pun teringat, naik kereta teringat, tgk awek lain teringat, baring pun teringat. and yang paling teruk lelaki tu teringat kena tinggal dengan EX. perempuan tu x nak lelaki tu sakit dah. dia x nak lelaki tu teringat EX and nak sembuhkan hati lelaki tu dengan kehadiran dia. tapi pada masa yang sama, perempuan tu sedar yang lelaki tu maybe ada rasa bersalah and rasa x betul dengan apa yang lelaki tu buat. "I know you're scared it's wrong, Like you might make a mistake". ye la bru lepas break then dah in relationship. lagipun lelaki tu takut la kalau akan dikecewakan lagi dengan perempuan tu, and macam-macam la. lelaki tu dihantui dengan EX dia. x nak banana fruits two times. huhu. tapi kisah dulu tu dulu la. xkan sebab sorang perempuan yg kecewakan dia, dia nak involve jugak perempuan tu. "There's just one life to live , And there's no time to wait", kalau lelaki tu asyik dengan trauma dia, sampai bila hati tu x terubat and sampai bebila lelaki tu x kan temui kebahagiaan. hidup ni sekejap je sebelum hidup kekal abadi di akhirat. tp kalau hidup sekarang ni dekat bumi kau x manfaatkan betul-betul, you dont live ur life, rugi lah beb. x da masa nak tunggu-tunggu EX atau tunggu bila hati dah reda. peluang cerah baik depan mata perempuan tu ada untuk jaga hati lelaki tu, tunggu apa lagi. perempuan tu sanggup sembuhkan hati lelaki tu, asalkan LELAKI TU SERAH HATI DIA KEPADA PEREMPUAN TU. perempuan tu akan jaga baik-baik. "So let me give your heart a break, give your heart a break" .

On Sunday you went home alone
There were tears in your eyes
I called your cell phone, my love
But you did not reply

The world is ours. If we want it,
We can take it if you just take my hand.
There's no turning back now.
Baby, try to understand

so lepas diaorg dua dating, lelaki tu maybe teringat EX dia lagi. kelakar kan? x kelakar pun. sedih. even perempuan tu bg all out dekat lelaki tu, lelaki tu still teringat EX dia. lelaki tu sedih sampai menangis "On Sunday you went home alone , There were tears in your eyes" . so perempuan tu cuba la nak tenangkan hati lelaki tu, nak tanya kenapa, mengapa.. walaupun perempuan tu tahu kenapa tapi dia x kisah and nak dengar lelaki tu luah perasaan, luah yang lelaki tu teringat EX dia walaupun perempuan tu sure sakit hati. perempuan tu call lelaki tu tapi lelaki tu x angkat, message pun x balas. "I called your cell phone, my love.. But you did not reply". LELAKI TU MENGHILANG. kesian perempuan tu. 

" The world is ours." ,perempuan tu cakap, dunia ni kita punya. literally. haha. kalau kita nak, kita leh dapat asalkan kita usaha. so perempuan tu harap lelaki tu boleh sambut dan terima perempuan tu untuk lelaki tu bahagia semula. "If we want it,

We can take it if you just take my hand." .lagipun diaorang kan in relationship, x kan la nak break up sebab ingt EX. kalau patah balik masa pun, benda still sama. "There's no turning back now.". so perempuan tu harap lelaki tu faham dan move on. "Baby, try to understand" sila la move on wahai lelaki.

When your lips are on my lips
Then our hearts beat as one
But you slip out of my fingertips
Every time you run, whoa-oh-whoa-oh-oh

aku tak nak urai lebih rangkap ni cuma kalau lelaki tu tengah baca, maybe lelaki tu boleh alert dekat "But you slip out of my fingertips , Every time you run" ,  perempuan tu ada tekan something dekat situ. 

'Cause you've been hurt before
I can see it in your eyes
You try to smile it away, some things you can't disguise
Don't wanna break your heart
Baby, I can ease the ache, the ache

perempuan tu faham kenapa kadang-kadang lelaki tu buat perangai macam ni sebab perempuan tu tahu lelaki tu pernah dikecewakan gila babeng dengan EX dia "'Cause you've been hurt before" ,  perempuan tu nampak tingkah laku lelaki tu. dia nampak apa yang lelaki tu rasa @ teringat pasal EX lelaki tu walau pun lelaki tu tak cakap. perempuan tu nampak, "I can see it in your eyes", mata x boleh tipu :). even lelaki tu cuba senyum macam biasa, lelaki tu x boleh tipu dan selindung perasaan lelaki tu tentang EX dia. perempuan tu tahu :') "You try to smile it away, some things you can't disguise". tapi perempuan tu still tekad nk kurangkan sakit hati lelaki tu. simple, sebab perempuan tu sayang lelaki tu. 

The day I first met you
You told me you'd never fall in love

perempuan tu ulang balik lirik ni. simply ingat kan memori lama and pada masa yang sama ingatkan diri sendiri yang lelaki tu pernah cakap lelakii tu tak akan fall in love. tapi sekarang diaorg in relationship :')

so ni la apa aku fikir bila aku dengar lagu ni. maybe penulis @ penyanyi lagu ni maksudkan benda lain tapi... this is just my two cent. :)

so soalan aku :

1. perempuan tu dikira bijak atau kurang bijak jatuh cinta dekat orang yang baru clash?
2. adakah strategi dia berkesan dengan terus menggantikan tempat EX lelaki tu atau perempuan tu patut kekal kawan buat sementara waktu sebelum in relationship dengan lelaki tu?
3. adakah lelaki tu akan sayang dan hargai perempuan tu lebih @ sama macam dia sayang EX dia dulu?

leave out ur comment. i really really really appreciate it. thank you. 

p/s: wahida kata perempuan tu bijak kalau percaturan dia menjadi dan vise versa. haha